There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Things are only ever as good as we make them. Those who strive for perfection will indubitably end up disappointed.
When two people are in a committed partnership, they consciously try, on a daily basis, to make good choices and respect their partner at all times, through every up and down. That is all we can do and those who have it, know that it’s enough.
That is when two people gain that deep connection with one another that allows them to see each other grow old together, weathering every storm side by side.
Creating a deep, intimate and indestructible connection with your partner takes time, effort and a bunch of little, ordinary moments in life that get you to that place of complete comfort and delight.
How can you tell when you’ve reached that ultimate connection with your partner? These 5 habits are clear indicators of the most profound, spiritual connection between you and your loved one:
1. You never stop learning about each other
Gaining insight into your partner’s psyche on a daily basis and finding out more and more about them (which you didn’t deem possible) is truly a remarkable feeling.
When you think you know all there is to know about a person that is when you realize how little you actually know about them. And that in itself is amazing.
Having the privilege to keep getting to know all about your partner, through every aspect of your relationship, is a continuous effort that should never stop being the case for two people adamant about spending their forever by each other’s side.
2. You strive to find the positive side to everything
It is without a doubt that your relationship will go through rocky moments and be shaken up at times. But only deeply connected couples will try (and succeed) to find the positives to every negative.
It’s easy to let the negativity overcome you and give up when things don’t go to plan but those who value each other and don’t want to risk gambling them away will always strive to find a good side to everything.
They will appreciate all the tough moments, as they will make them stronger and more connected through every curve ball life throws their way.
3. You have a mutual understanding of the things around you
Of course, there will be disagreements at times but those will only help you establish a firm connection in learning to let go of the petty bickering and find a compromise on your way to creating a shared philosophy of the world.
When you have that deep connection that exceeds and foregoes explanation, you realize that compromise and understanding are the only ways to keep evolving together and learning from one another.
4. You bare your soul to each other without hesitation
Even if you are an open person who doesn’t have a problem with sharing things about herself, this is personal on another level.
Deeply connected couples are never hesitant to share the most intimate details and private parts of themselves. There is nothing you fear saying to your partner and vice versa. Be that your unpopular views on worldwide subjects, to the most private thoughts and feelings you would be uncomfortable sharing with anyone else.
You just get each other. There is no judgment, no fear, just openness and understanding. You explore each other’s souls with the most genuine, pure intentions and you never shy away from being vulnerable with each other.
5. You protect each other’s feelings
One of the most important factors in nurturing that deep connection is being protective of each other’s feelings. Respecting those boundaries and keeping all of your partner’s secrets.
Whatever your partner has shared with you, it comes from a place of utmost trust and betraying that trust would signify the end of your one of a kind connection.
Opportunities to break that trust and lose your connection are going to be endless but managing to stay truthful and faithful through them all is what makes your connection special and meaningful.
You protect each other at all costs and put your commitment first. Nothing could make you break that bond, because you know that finding this type of connection is rare and way too precious.